I think it’s time we all admit something: WordPress is not a blogging platform. WordPress is a chaotic neutral entity that wakes up every morning and chooses violence. And lately, it has chosen me as its favorite target.
Swirling luminous threads intertwine to create radiant, poetic text in a dark space
Every time I try to write a post for It’s Obviously Crochet (my other blog site), I enter the editor with hope — foolish, naïve hope — thinking, “Maybe today the template will behave.” And WordPress responds, “Lol no,” and immediately throws a formatting tantrum. Paragraphs wander off like they’re late for brunch. Images teleport to the wrong block. Headings inflate to three times their size like they’re trying to assert dominance. And the spacing? WordPress sprinkles random blank gaps like it’s seasoning a casserole.
This isn’t frustration. This is a full‑blown feud.
The fits and starts are relentless. I’ll get a few sentences in, feeling productive, and suddenly WordPress decides it’s time for a spontaneous redesign. Blocks jump around like they’re doing parkour. A mysterious line appears out of nowhere, as if WordPress is underlining its own bad attitude. I fix one thing, and WordPress breaks three more, just to keep the power dynamic clear.
At this point, I’m convinced WordPress has a personality — and not a charming one. More like the personality of a gremlin that’s been fed after midnight and given access to CSS. It doesn’t listen. It doesn’t cooperate. It doesn’t care about my artistic vision. It just wants to watch me suffer while it rearranges my layout like it’s redecorating a dollhouse.
And honestly? I’m about ready to fight this template in the parking lot.
I’m talking full dramatic showdown. Me, armed with caffeine and righteous fury. WordPress, armed with whatever dark magic it uses to randomly center text I explicitly left‑aligned. I’ll square up. It’ll glitch. I’ll threaten to switch platforms. It’ll crash. We’ll both walk away changed.
But here’s the snarky truth: I keep coming back. Because I’m stubborn. Because I love my blog. Because I refuse to let a misbehaving template defeat me. And because apparently I enjoy emotional combat with software.
Creativity comes in fits and starts — and so does WordPress functionality. Some days it behaves. Other days it acts like it’s possessed by the spirit of a chaotic dungeon master who rolled a natural 1 on “cooperate with user.”
Still, I’ll keep wrestling with it. I’ll keep dragging blocks back where they belong. I’ll keep deleting phantom spaces. I’ll keep muttering at the screen like a crocheter on the brink.
Because at the end of the day, I want to share my work — even if WordPress insists on making it a heroic quest.
Step into Middle‑earth with my newest creation — Galadriel, the Lady of Light. Hand‑crocheted with care and shimmering detail, she brings the grace and wisdom of Lothlórien to life in yarn form. Her flowing cream hair, silver crown, and soft white gown capture the ethereal beauty of Tolkien’s beloved queen.
Her long cream‑colored hair cascades beneath a shimmering silver crown, and her elegant white gown is tied with a glittering belt that catches the light just like her wisdom and grace.
Each stitch is lovingly crafted to capture her gentle strength and ethereal beauty.
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“The time has come, the Walrus said,/to talk of many things” This line of course is from Lewis Carroll’s poem, The Walrus and the Carpenter. So it is.
I have not neglected writing as much as I have neglected this blog. I have polished a couple of novels I wrote several years ago and I have written another one that is a standalone about time travelers.
I set up a Patreon page to advertise my work. On Patreon, you can message me for access to the full novels or you can get a character named after you (or a name of your choice) in a future novel. Also, if you would like an opportunity to read the latest novel, hop on over to Patreon for a chance to be a volunteer.
I have established an account at Royal Road where you can get access to the novels. Check it out and give me a like!
I am currently working on a second novel that will be standalone but with the same time travelers theme.
Anyone who follows my blog knows I love Westerns (here’s the link to my Western Book Review category). One of my favorite authors is Robert Thomas. His 113+series about US Marshall/bounty hunter Jess Williams, who hunts only the worst of the worst outlaws, is one of my favorites. Jess Williams fights injustice, follows the law, and helps those who can’t help themselves. The stories are set during my preferred post-Civil War time frame of 1866-1899, an era in America’s west when fighting Indians had almost ended, Western law hadn’t yet solidified (US Marshalls and Town Marshalls aside) so outlaws often rode roughshod over good citizens, the Pony Express had been replaced by stagecoaches, themselves being replaced by trains, indoor toilets were the rage in the best hotels, the sewing machine was beginning to make clothing more abundant, canned goods were becoming popular (especially peaches), and so much more.
This week sped by at high speed and I am not sure why. I didn’t do anything special or anticipate anything upcoming. I have been writing, and working on a story that may or may not ever be shown to the public.
When I start writing, the world slips by me reasonably quickly. I get a good thought going and all of sudden I realize that I have been typing for four hours straight and my arthritic knees and hips are screaming for movement.
The first thing to do is create a well-thought-out strategy for getting out of my chair. Once I am verticle, I wait a few seconds to make sure my knees and hips will actually hold me up. Then, cane in hand, I make a few tottering steps toward the bathroom, usually.
It never fails to amaze me that I can get so into what I am writing that I am able to ignore basic bodily needs, such as a bathroom break or getting something to drink. For a time, I can ignore sore hips and aching knees.
But, this week I wrote nearly 20,000 words. *Pats self on the back.*
Come along catch a Heffalump Sit with me on a muddy clump We’ll sing a song of days gone by
Run along now don’t be glum Get you gone now have some fun Don’t be long for the end is nigh
Don’t let moments pass along and waste before your eyes March with me and the borogoves Come with me and the slithy toves And never ask us why
Come come come come come along now Run away from the hum-drum We’ll go to a place that is safe from Greed, anger and boredom
We’ll dance and sing till sundown And feast with abandon We’ll sleep when the morning comes And we’ll rise by the sound of the bird songs
We’ll be here when the world slows down And the sunbeams fade away Keeping time by a pendulum as the fabric starts to fray
There’s no such thing as time to kill No time to throw away
Come come come come come along now Run away from the hum-drum We’ll go to a place that is safe from Greed, anger and boredom
We’ll dance and sing till sundown And feast with abandon We’ll sleep when the morning comes ‘Cause i’ll rise by the sound of the birdsongs
Come with me catch a rare type specimen Cuddle up with a hesitant skeleton We’ll break our fast with friends
Once we’re fed we shall disappear rapidly Many moons to the west of here and happily Our journey never ends
Shut your ears when sirens sing Tie armbands to your feet Listen up and you won’t go wrong again Float along on a verse-less song and then Get to where the two ends meet
Come come come come come along now Run away from the hum-drum We’ll go to a place that is safe from Greed, anger and boredom
We’ll dance and sing till sundown And feast with abandon We’ll sleep when the morning comes And we’ll rise by the sound of the birdsongs
Are you a process or a product crocheter? Maybe you’ve never stopped to think about it or perhaps you’ve never heard of these categories before. Read on to learn more and find out what drives your crochet process.
Product Crocheters
How do you pick your crochet projects? If your main focus is the end result of your finished project, you’re likely a product crocheter. Because your main goal is to create the desired piece, you may not even look through the pattern before you begin. For fearless crocheters, this is a wonderful way to gain experience in new techniques you may not have otherwise tried. You choose your pattern based off of a garment or accessory that you want to wear or complete for a gift. Generally, product crocheters will focus on one project at a time and finish what they’ve started.
Process Crocheters
For process crocheters, it’s all about the journey. You love the act of crocheting and simply want to play with different yarns and your favorite stitches. Process crocheters tend to pick larger projects that allow you to crochet away without much stopping for measuring, hand finishing or fiddling with any kind of stitch you don’t enjoy. You may also cherish the act of searching for the perfect pattern, pairing with the perfect yarn, and swatching until everything is just right.
Combination Crocheters
Most of us aren’t strictly process or product crocheters, but a combination of the two. I know there are certain stitches or finishing techniques that I just don’t enjoy, so I do tend to shy away from patterns that are heavy in those areas. For the most part, I have a rough idea of my finished product in mind when I’m searching for a pattern. I usually start with a yarn from my stash and the amount of yardage guides me to what is possible (one skein? A lacey scarf or hat. Several skeins? Sweater or shawl time!). From there, I look at what the end result would be and if I like it, I’ll take a closer look at the pattern to make sure I’ll enjoy creating the piece. Combination crocheters want to cherish both the act of their craft and the end result.
Something fun to note is that preferences can differ from craft to craft. I find my knitting process is very similar to my crochet process, however I’m definitely a product sewist. The act of sewing isn’t as therapeutic to me as crocheting, so I just want the project to be completed and off my sewing table. In contrast, sometimes I just want to crochet for the sake of crocheting. I’ll grab a skein or two of yarn, my hook and a simple pattern repeat to create a shawl or scarf that just goes and goes. I always want something in process on my hook or needles.
So, which type of crocheter are you? Whatever your process, cherish your crochet time!
This post is not about crocheting or writing. This one is about anger, as the title suggests. So much to deal with, these days. But, let me start at the beginning.
Anyone who follows this blog knows my brother died last June. In order to keep my finances in order without having to sell most of what I own, I decided to get a roommate who could pay me a small amount of rent monthly. I made a very bad mistake when I didn’t charge a deposit. I thought I was being nice. I thought I was doing my future tenant a favor. I tried to be a fair and reasonable landlady. What a mistake!
I found a woman in her fifties who needed a place to rent, so we agreed on a sum I gave the the grand tour of the house and she said she liked it. She signed the lease, agreeing to pay me month to month. Then, she moved in. Within a week, this woman started complaining about the temperature in the house. My house is 126 years old which means it is hot in the summer and cold in the winter, even with HVAC installed. She complained about several things she thought was wrong with my house: No insulation, builder’s grade carpet in the bedroom, only two electrical outlets (she forgot to count the one in the bathroom) and the water from the water heater was too cold, the internet was slow, she had to park on the street, and on and on ad nauseum.
I replaced the water heater because it was old and a ticking timebomb, anyway. I patiently explained the cost of insulating a old home and the cost of re-wiring and old home. She demanded lower rent. So, we renegotiated and I lowered the rent by $100 a month. In retrospect, I should have told her to get lost right then.
Accusation
Then, she began accusing me of going into her room when she wasn’t home. Every. Day. I told her I did not go into her room because I had no reason to go into her room. She installed a security camera and pointed it toward the door to the bedroom. This was apparently done the day she moved in, however, I didn’t know there was a camera in her room for a couple of months. She was bragging on a rug she bought for the floor and I spotted the camera when I went into her room (with her present) to admire it. I thought my head would explode, but I held my peace. Another big error on my part.
She began accusing me of going into her room when she wasn’t home. Every. Day.
The next time she accused me of going into her room, I suggested she look at her camera footage and she would know I didn’t go in there. That became my new mantra. “Look at your camera footage before you accuse me.”
Escalation
By this time, winter was approaching and she began to complain about the room being too cold, the water being too cold, me going into her room and me listening to her phone conversations. As for the last complaint, I went into my bedroom, which is upstairs and right over her bedroom, to change my clothes after dropping food down the front of my shirt. She came up the stairs and demanded I stop listening to her phone conversations. “What are you talking about?” I asked.
She demanded I stop listening to her phone conversations.
“I was on the phone and you went into your room to just hung out and listen to me,” she explained in her whining, complaining voice. What an incredible ego she had. Really? There couldn’t have possibly been another reason I went into my bedroom? She is too old to be an entitled millennial, but that is what she acted like.
I asked her through clenched teeth, “Is your TV on right now?”
“Yes,” she replied.
“Stand in my bedroom and tell me what you hear.” I could not hear her TV in my room, nor could I hear her when she was talking on her phone in her room. She didn’t respond. She gave me a bitch-I-wish-you-would-drop-dead look and left. While she was heading down the stairs, I told her that I refused to sit in a closet and never come out just because she moved in.
She had her mail changed to a post office box because she thought I was reading her mail. She continually complained about me going into her room. She still complained about me listening to her phone conversations. She complained that it was my fault that HER Firestick stopped working because of my wonky internet. (I have no problem with it, whatsoever.)
As a side note, I didn’t promise 5-star accommodations. I distinctly remember promising a bed and a bathroom, kitchen and laundry privileges.
She nearly ruined my washer with using too much fabric softener and when I asked her to not use it again, she did anyway. It took me two days to clean out my washer after she left because the inside of it was covered in a sticky blue sludge that smelled just like her fabric softener. And I was allergic to it. when I did my laundry, inevitably, it coated my clothes. I had places that itched that I really didn’t want to scratch in public. I told her this. She didn’t care.
And then, the day before she left, she once again accused me of going into her room. My patience snapped and I suggested (loudly) that she check her camera footage. I suggested she stop making the accusation because if she asked me five months from now, I would tell her the same thing. “I did not go into her room!” I told her that if I HAD to do into her room for some reason, like the house was on fire, I would text her to let her know. I told her I never wanted to hear that accusation, again. She said, “All I want is peace.” I replied, “Then, stop your paranoid accusations and figure out, once and for all time, that I don’t care what is in your room and I have no burning desire to hang out in there when you are not home. I have a life and none of it includes looking around your bedroom.” My tirade was skillfully sprinkled with a few foul words and much longer than I included in this post.
She moved out the next day.
And after she left, I knew why she didn’t want me in her room and was so freaking paranoid about it. She robbed me blind. She must have had a pile of my things in a corner and she was afraid I would see them. The list of things she stole from me is as follows and in no way complete: sheets for the bed she slept on, 2 brand new pillows, the pulls from the ceiling fan, the light bulbs out of the ceiling fan, the bathroom set of cup, toothbrush holder and soap dish, a walking cane, a blanket I crocheted for her that she was supposed to pay for, another blanket I let her borrow, a 25 gallon plastic tote I let her borrow, a hammer, several screwdrivers, a cordless drill, kitchen utensils, an umbrella, and the key to the front door.
She robbed me blind.
Then she told one of my neighbors, who asked her why she was moving, that I kept going into her room when she wasn’t home and she had camera footage to prove it. That statement made her a liar as well as a thief, because there is no camera footage of me going into her bedroom because I never did.
And I don’t want to even discuss how nasty the bedroom and bathroom was right after she moved.
The Lessons I Learned
I will not invite someone I don’t know to live in my house, again.
And if I ever decide that someone can move into my spare room, they will give me a hefty deposit that I will NOT return until about 30 days after they have left and I have had time to assess anything stolen from me.
I will immediately evict anyone who starts to complain about my house.
I will not renegotiate the rent once it is agreed upon.
I will add $150 non-refundable key deposit and change the lock the same day a new tenant moves out.
I don’t normally do kits, but this one was so striking, I couldn’t resist. I found it here. The only downside is having to wait for the next installment to arrive.
Karen Crochets More Than Karen Writes 